Chastity tasks: Tasks to assist you in your chastity training

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What if you want to try and avoid the rule breaking and consequences all together? For me, punishment creates fear. The last thing that I want to do is have fear of my Dominant. Sometimes punishments are necessary, but you don’t have to always use that as your go-to. Rewards can go a long way to getting the submissive to stay in line. At least it works for me. Mindset-based: These are rules or tasks that may include permission before doing an action, kneeling/positions, or focus tasks to remind of role. Examples: Ask permission before you get dressed, Kneel for 10 mins while focused on posture, or Place both hands in lap for 5 seconds before submissive may eat. Thank you (You), I am unsure if you are a Woman or a man, but appreciate your effort in creating this piece. Coaches demonstrate the task or have it demonstrated then guide from the sidelines watching the learner and continuing to participate in their learning. Coaching as a style should be authoritative. The reward is getting the coaching and getting to participate. Training your man with the dominant teacher approach

When giving rules in a new dynamic, I recommend giving a few at a time. Build up the rules list slowly, instead of enforcing a whole list of unfamiliar rules all at once. Enforcing many rules at once can set the submissive up for failure and establish a feeling of discouragement from the start. What are the purpose of rules? The whole reason we have changed to an FLR is because the previous paradigm of a dominant male ego trying to lead the family failed catastrophically and my Wife was constantly trying to manage all of the fallout from that.

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Sex (Absolutely her control area. She decides when and what she wants, I don’t decide anything. I’m allowed to ask, but not beg. And I’m not allowed to ask all the time (don’t be annoying!) but only carefully when she’s in the mood. Chastity and strict orgasm control are absoltely mandatory to her, no exeptions) When it comes to punishment, your FLR is very different from mine. I do get penalties. With the whip, the paddle or the cane if violent offenses have occurred. Masturbation or lying would be something like that, for example. Then it will really hurt. My wife gets great satisfaction when I beg to stop and vow to do better. Above all, she enjoys the power to comply or not to comply with my begging. Unfortunately, she feels just as comfortable in the role of the kind as in the role of the unimpressed. The latter more often.

As mentioned, the nice thing about the rule-set was that it allowed a lot of leeway on whether or not submissive would be happy following the instructions. It also consisted of rules that it would follow on the days that at work as well as the days that at home. Collar and Jewelry: I must follow any instructions that you give me regarding what I am allowed to use, how long I am allowed to use it, etc. when I masturbate. ChastityDungeon.com offers hundreds of tasks. Some are BDSM-related (bondage, dildos, buttplugs, etc.), some are conditioning (writing, listening), some are even punishments (did you abort your previous session? did you not do the task like I asked?). We also have more general tasks, including creative ones, like taking a photo, or drawing a given subject. If you like physical activities, we have a bunch of those lined up for you, too. Are you into sissification? You're in the right place. Enjoy wearing diapers? Welcome! Enjoy horror movies? Hah, you won't, after you're done with the horror-related tasks. Do you just want some casual, fun tasks? We have you covered. What about self-improvement? Oh yes, we can get you oriented in that direction as well. Along with doing all the household chores that you've been missing to do lately. Because I need to talk about how I feel and to understand how she feels we have a time on Sunday where we sit together with a glass of wine and can talk about anything. I can ask how long I will have to abstain or how she is feeling. Like does she feel obligated to do anything and so on.

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If the man is expecting Her to do all of this then it is really missing the point. In FLRs, the power dynamic shifts so that the Women is in charge. However, this doesn’t mean that She has to now take complete responsibility for him and micro-manage his behaviours. Instead, he should be expected to manage his own behaviours in a way that always puts Her thoughts and feelings first. Her needs and desires are the priority for him.