All the Men I Never Married

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I have been married for 25 years, 4 great kids and now I am divorced by my wife who was having unhappiness in marriage .

Kim Moore’s eagerly awaited second collection All The Men I Never Married is pointedly feminist, challenging and keenly aware of the contradictions and complexities of desire. Our insecure attachment styles form mainly in our childhood through trauma and ineffective parenting. For variety of technique, richness of imagery and sheer thematic coherence, Kim Moore’s volume well deserves a place on the required reading list … There’s a swagger and confidence to Moore’s verse that refuses to be victimised, even in her saddest and bleakest poems, and it’s what will make this collection stand out in a crowded field. One way in which this becomes clear is in the difference between the trend lines for marriage and wages between men and women since the 1990s.Other never marrieds have reported incompetent parents who have repeatedly produced chaos such as out-of-control spending leading to bankruptcy and loss. Moore’s capacity to stand back, to concentrate, enables her to excoriate abuse whilst retaining a measured exterior. So, if I succeed I'll know it's my own success and not by mirroring someone else, and the same goes for my failures. These are powerful, persuasive poems, reinforced by repetitions which do not strain narrative progression; rather do they act to declare affiliation, to bolster a sense of identity, to affirm emotional or intellectual independence, even to stave off fear.

I will only marry (if I ever do so), if he is better than my solitude, who I can have that heart to heart connection with. Single ladies are accused of possessing some fault (moral, physical) as reasons behind their singlehood.

The Pyramid – and by extension, Love U – takes you from the basics of building confidence and meeting men to learning the intimate strategies behind understanding, dating, and attracting high-quality guys so you can finally have the fun, committed relationship you so richly deserve. I do think there are certain people who have built a brick wall around themselves (men and women) and they really don't want to let anyone in.